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I actually MANAGED to pity people who go in and out of relationships..every month or so... and try to entertain you with their gossip

I hate people who wash their hair and swing it about in the bus in the mornings, thereby making yours truly wet from head to toe....

I DO not understand people who think they are bloody IT, and deem to not talk politely to others... come on, even the cleaning lady deserves a good word once a day at least...
Which is better? Asking her nicely to move out the boxes (Of course, miss I'll do it at once.. and she DOES it and then proceeds to serve you the largest piece of cake at tea)
or
Order her to move the boxes (and she dissapears off the face of earth, only reappearing some time around 4.00pm to push the boxes about the office, thereby leaving a trail etched on the carpet which in turn makes your boss mad at you and leaving you more miffed with her) ???